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In business, there are several influencers of your strategic thinking/planning time that have a direct impact on your growth. These are your mission, vision, and strategies. These three, often missing, components shift your business growth from being tactical and easily tossed about by change to that of being strategic and sustainable.

Whereas your mission is present tense, your vision is your future. And, for small businesses like yours and mine, business vision is personal.

Visioning isn’t an easy task. It takes uninterrupted time to think through what you really want versus what you think you should want.

Take Three Giant Steps Forward

As a kid growing up, I played “Captain May I” with the local hooligans (i.e., neighborhood kids). The objective of the game was to be the first one to reach the Captain.

“Captain, may I take three steps forward?” was a common request.

Much like accelerating your forward movement to your goal with three giant steps, having a concise, crystal-clear small business vision fast forwards your business success.

Step One: Craft Your Vision

Your vision is a continual source of emotional energy. On days you can’t pole vault over a chalk mark, your vision is your uplifting force.

On a scale of 1–10, how would you rate your current vision on its strength to inspire and direct your planning? If your score is anything less than 9–10, it may be time to give your vision some tender loving care.

Consider these components as your re-envision what’s most important to you and your business:

  1. Core values — not to be confused with moral values, core personal values represent the behaviors and activities to which you are naturally drawn. They represent your natural self.
  2. Problems you hope to solve in the next 10 years for yourself, your family, your industry, and your employees.
  3. What you want to achieve within the next 10 years. See #2.
  4. Your buyer and what you want for them.

Step Two: Crystallize Your Vision

Belief in the ability to achieve your desired vision is one of the biggest obstacle for most small business owners. We quickly jump into “how” when facing our vision. “How” is a planning question that immediately dampens belief in one’s vision.

Want a more applicable question that doesn’t immediately limit your vision to the boring, uninspired, and mundane? Me, too!

Brian P. Moran and Michael Lennington, authors of The 12 Week Year: Get More Done in 12 Weeks than Others Do in 12 Months, share a provacative model to shift from a vision that seems impossible to achieve to one that is certain to be obtained.

The process includes moving from “impossible” to “possible” to “probable” to “given”.

Start with the impossible and ask yourself “what if.” This elevates your vision to the “possible.”

About the possibilities, ask “how might I.” This moves your vision to that which is probable.

From what is probable, its a short distance to what is given.

Once your vision is given, a strong emotional and mental state is established that keeps you inspired on the days you wonder if Starbucks is hiring.

Step Three: Focus Your Vision

As Thomas Edison aptly pointed out, “A vision without execution is a hallucination.” It’s sage advice to bring your vision to the level of practical application.

Horizons to include:

  1. Long-term: i.e., your end game
  2. Mid-term: Generally this is a 3– 5 year time frame; however, select the vista that makes the most sense for your situation.
  3. Short-term: This is the point of practical application J.P. Morgan referenced when he said, “Go as far as you can see; when you get there, you’ll be able to see farther.” What is your reach? Is it one week? One month? Three months? Whatever your vista, make sure it’s in focus.

The Litmus Test

How can you tell your vision is spot on? Ask yourself:

  1. Is it a source of inspiration and aspiration on a daily, weekly, monthly, annual basis?
  2. If something were to devastate your business and impact your vision, would you rebuild?
business growth

Since its inception, business coaching continues to grow in popularity, sophistication of techniques, and outcomes obtained.

Any business coach worth their weight in salt (i.e., their fee) wants you and your business to benefit greatly from the coaching relationship. This brief guide helps maximize the value of your coaching engagement.

Make a List of What You Really Want

When your goals are clear, progress comes quickly.

Success is not about what you should achieve, but rather what you want to achieve based on your desires, needs, and values.

If your vision is cloudy, have a conversation with your business coach to ensure you’re clear and focused during your coaching engagement. You’ll be glad you did!

Get to Know Yourself Better

Working with a trained and knowledgeable strategic business coach is a healthy way to grow. Most clients hire a coach to accomplish several specific goals. Much of the time and focus is on these goals.

However, don’t be surprised if you find your vision and goals adjusting to who you really are and what’s most important to you. This discovery process is natural. There is no need to rush it, just know it may happen.

Accelerating your personal and professional growth is the hallmark of working with an experienced coach.

Be Willing

During your coaching engagement, there may be times your coach makes a request that, in the moment, seems like a BIG ask. Not too much but certainly more than you have previously asked of yourself. Other times, instead of asking for more, your coach may ask for something different from what conventional wisdom dictates.

Through years of working with thousands of entrepreneurs, we’ve discovered the quickest route to achieving your goals isn’t always by doing more — or doing what you’ve done in the past. Many goals are realized by taking a fundamentally different path.

Don’t worry. You and/or your business will never be placed at risk. Plus, the final choice for implementing any request rests with you.

Be open to experiment with fresh approaches such as:

  • Put yourself first
  • Tell yourself the truth as you see it
  • Stop working hard
  • Remove all sources of stress
  • Ask for what you need from others
  • Set goals that are different than originally intended
  • Expect more and different service from your vendors
  • Change your behavior
  • Simplify your life
  • Drop all current projects
  • Stop tolerating

Come to Your Strategic Coaching Appointments Prepared

Your time is valuable. Make it count by investing time to prepare.

Prior to any coaching appointment, create a written list of things to discuss. This ensures you obtain what you want.Items to include:

  • Achievements since your last appointment
  • What you’re currently working on and how it’s going
  • Insights and new awareness that excite you
  • Report on commitments made
  • Advice you want regarding a specific situation
  • New skills you want to develop
  • Strategies you wish to develop

Time spent reflecting on your achievements, insights, and challenges — and planning — provides the clarity you and your coach need to maximize your results.

Showing up for a coaching appointment unprepared is a waste of valuable resources!

Enjoy the Give and Take of the Meeting

There’s a lot of information to cover during a coaching appointment, especially in the beginning. After several meetings, you may take a little time to catch up on parts of your business experiencing change or growth.

Meetings aren’t exactly gabfests, and are meant to be enjoyable and uplifting. They don’t need to be intense or difficult to produce that which you know is possible. Feel free to set the tone of the meetings.

Get Healthy – Stay Healthy

Growth, whether it’s business or personal, requires energy – mentally, emotionally, intellectually and physically. Given this, take extraordinary care of yourself during this process of growth, innovation and synergy.

Only you know what that looks like, but we suggest some of these habits to keep yourself fit:

  • Say ‘no’
  • Read
  • Underpromise
  • Eliminate sugar, caffeine, nicotine, alcohol
  • Listen to great music
  • Exercise a minimum of 30 minutes daily
  • Eat more vegetables and fruit
  • Reduce fat intake
  • Meditate
  • Take vitamins
  • Write in your journal
  • Eat six (6) small meals daily
  • Schedule 10 minute breaks every 1 ½ – 2 hours throughout the day

Honor Your Commitments

At the completion of each appointment, you’ll co-develop a plan of action with your business coach. This isn’t the dreaded homework like high school. These are tasks, actions, results, or changes that support the achievement of your goals.

Honor yourself — and your commitments — to maximize your coaching results.

Coaching is exhilarating, fun, productive, informative, and scary all at the same time. And, there’s nothing more gratifying when you begin to see major progress towards goals that previousl eluded you. Now, that’s success!

Entrepreneur, Tamara Mellon, recently discussed her rise from the ashes following failure and filing for bankruptcy in 2016 on CBS. The former co-founder of the wildly successful shoe line, Jimmy Choo, spoke candidly about the cause of her defeat.

Mellon explained her vision was right, but the execution was wrong. She learned from her mistakes and started over…very successfully, I might add.

Mellon’s “right vision — wrong execution” plagues many entrepreneurs. Equally troublesome is a wrong vision or cloudy vision or no vision.

It’s challenging — at best — to craft a strategic plan based on the right vision. A plan based on a blurred or confused vision is unachievable (and scads of hard work).

What about your business vision?

Is it the right vision for you? Is it unambiguous? Do you believe in it enough to start over, if needed? If not, it’s worth a reboot. Consider 10 Questions Entrepreneurs Can Ask to Focus Their Vision.

Failure is seldom final or fatal with a vision to believe in…

Why do some skilled, gifted entrepreneurs struggle while other seemingly less talented, individuals succeed beyond your wildest dreams? It’s a real head scratcher — especially when hard work, time, and effort are feverishly invested.

Interestingly, academic research identified how entrepreneurs can consistently improve performance, exceed, and succeed, much like their sports and music counterparts.

Turns out, wild success is less an issue of luck, talent, or hard work and more a matter of focused learning and deliberate practice.

Good Enough, Smart Enough, and Talented Enough

Malcolm Gladwell, well-known author of Outliers, was the first to mention the “10,000 Hours Rule” which suggests greatness is achieved once 10,000 hours of practice is attained. The Beatles and Bill Gates were two examples of success used to make his point.

According to Gladwell, the amount of time the Beatles played music and Bill Gates “played” with computers shaped their success.

Although Mr. Gladwell does reference “deliberate” practice in Outliers, the original author of the study on “deliberate practice,” K. Andrews Ericsson, says Malcolm got it wrong. Spending 10 years, or 10,000 hours, working in your domain does not translate to high levels of performance and success.

Tristin Hopper, an award-winning reporter for the National Post articulates it well in his article, Malcolm Gladwell got it wrong: “Deliberate practice” — not 10,000 hours — key to achievement, psychologist says

What’s critical is “deliberate practice” — a scientific attention to specific improvement goals, a constant drive to move outside one’s comfort zone that is “generally not enjoyable,” and a good coach “to minimize the risk” of wasted, frustrated time.

Deliberate practice directly influences the capacity for entrepreneurs to excel and acquire the following:

  • Attainment of consistent high levels of performance
  • Greater capacity for processing and integrating new information
  • Multiplication of skills and capabilities
  • Adaptability to rapid and unpredictably change
  • Expansion of cognitive resources needed to accurately evaluate opportunities

It’s deliberate practice, not hard work, long hours, talents, giftedness, or intelligence that is the greatest magnifier of performance — and success.

Turns out, you really are smart enough, good enough, and talented enough to succeed. What you need is practice — deliberate, intentional, and strategic practice.

The Bare Necessities of Deliberate Practice

knowing_entrepreneur_succeedsNot all forms of practice deliver the level of success most entrepreneurs crave. Practice, as academia demonstrates, must be deliberate.

Two well-respected entrepreneurship researchers, Robert A. Baron and Rebecca A. Henry, outline key elements of deliberate practice — beyond 10,000 hours — to include:

  1. Focus and concentration. Expanding the capacity to exceed is mentally demanding. Therefore, one must be fully absorbed in the task at hand. No multitasking and interruptions, please!
  2. Strengthen weaknesses. Thought-leaders tout the benefits of bolstering one’s strengths. Research experts disagree. Continuing to develop strengths does very little to influence performance. Much like a bodybuilding ends up with bigger biceps when focused only on biceps (vs. reshaping their entire body), an entrepreneur fixated on strengths does little to improve performance. Embrace your weaknesses!
  3. Duration. Gladwell “sorta” got this right. Research concludes the accumulated benefits of deliberate practice are attained in 10+ years — not 10,000 hours. Let’s not give up too soon!
  4. Repetition. Sustained levels of performance are acquired through recurrence and replication.
    “Dripping water hollows out stone, not through force but through persistence.” —Ovid, Roman poet
  5. Continuous feedback loop. Analysis and insight gained from tasks, metrics, and/or others provide objectivity for making the right kinds of improvement.
  6. Pre-performance preparation. The capacity to excel includes establishing appropriate goals and the process required to reach the predetermined goals. In other words, strategic thinking and planning is a must!
  7. Self-reflection and observation. Rather than rushing from one achievement to another, deliberate practice followed by objectively noting behaviors, outcomes, emotions, and reactions, amplifies future performance.
  8. Post-performance reflection. A “post-mortem” after sustained periods of deliberate practice provides insight into the correlation between levels of performance and goal realization. This analysis produces strategies for future improvement of performance.

Like an engine firing on all cylinders, the elements of deliberate practice shift you from merely doing to succeeding. Or, as someone once asked me, “Do you have one year of experience success repeated 10X or do you have 10 years of experience success?”

Breaking Free: You Have Options

What’s an entrepreneur to do? There’s good news! You have choices available to enhance your success beyond adding more hours to your already jam packed work week.

  1. Go it alone. This is a strategy many talented, intelligent, gifted entrepreneurs have tried with little success. Although it’s not a strategy we recommend, it is an option.
  2. Engage in periods of focused deliberate practice. Whether you go it alone or involve a colleague, employ the elements of deliberate practice listed above.
  3. Contract with a coach. Since its infancy, coaching has incorporated many of the basics of deliberate practices into its core competencies.
  4. Transfer resources developed in other domains to entrepreneurship. Deliberate practice in sports, music, and creative writing, for instance, can be transmitted to business success. (Looks like that marathon training may pay off after all.)
  5. Join a mastermind group. Collaboration is rapidly becoming the new way to achieving success more quickly — for a variety of reasons. From accountability to accelerating entrepreneurial learning to focused practice, mastermind groups, particularly when facilitated by an experienced coach, is the most effective method for creating opportunities for deliberate practice.

Are you ready to increase your chances for success? It won’t be easy following the principles of deliberate practice. It’s tough work! But let’s face it, what has been done thus far hasn’t been exactly living the dream.

Last Thursday, I hit a wall. It was late morning with lots of projects with my name on them. With little oomph to execute my well thought-out, time-sensitive plans, I became worried.

Fuzzy thinking. Lack of focus. Inability to become centered. Flitting from one task to another without traction or forward movement. Sound familiar? This medley of symptoms is much more common than we, small business owners, are willing to reveal.

I couldn’t quite figure out (i.e., name) my experience. Without an identity, how would I find a fix? Stumped, I had no idea how to rise above it and get back to the necessary business of the day.

The Coach Whisperer

I invested four years in education to become a coach. For several years, I taught coaching competencies to other coaches. And, I’ve been coaching small business owners for 20 years.

bigstock-Problem-Solution-Concept-Asse-optimized.jpgWhen you’re well-versed on the 200 + coaching competencies, coaching is second-nature. When such an occurrence arises, I do what any self-respecting business coach does. I engage in a round of self-coaching. After all, how bad can it be? (Sounds a bit frightening, doesn’t it? Like a surgeon performing an appendectomy on themselves.)

Confidentiality is key in a good coaching relationship. Minus my responses, this is the coaching conversation between me, myself, and I.

  • What is it I’m feeling?
  • When did it first start?
  • What symptoms do I have?
  • What occurred earlier that may have triggered this?
  • What else occurs as you consider the pattern?
  • Is this a pattern of performance you want to continue?
  • What is your plan moving forward?
  • How will you measure the effectiveness of your plan?
  • And, today? What is your plan for today?

The Big Takeaway

When stuck, most people ask “why” questions. Why do I feel this way? Why is this happening to me? Why? Why? Why?

Questions starting with “why” are like a dog chasing his tail chasing the dog. You’re taken around a maypole without any hope of escaping the garland-festooned activities.

Rather than chase your tail ’round and ’round, coach yourself to better outcomes. Ask questions that begin with “what” or “how.”

“What” or “how” questions stop the round about and unwinds the confusion. It creates forward movement which you experience immediately. But don’t take my word for it….

What is your focus for the day?

How will you avoid distractions?

What will you do to celebrate yourself?

Get my drift?

My sisters play Hay Day. It’s a popular mobile game where you build and manage your own farm. They frequently chat about what they’re growing, whose horses are running freely on the roads, and who generously shares their supplies. It’s creating a fun, common bond among siblings separated by time and distance. Frankly, I felt left out.

At the same time, I avoided getting involved. I told myself it was a waste of time.

Then my cooler-than-Justin-Bieber teenage nephew spontaneously told his Grandma, my big sister, that I need to play Hay Day on my Big A$$ iPad (i.e., iPad Pro).

Well, when your award-winning snowboarding, skateboarding great-nephew thinks his Aunt is cool enough to play Hay Day, it’s game on!

Business Skills Doppelgänger

It’s surprising to experience the similarities between amusing oneself on Hay Day and business building. Could it be a valuable tool to honing one’s business skills…without the financial risk?

Downloading the app is similar to launching your business. Time is allocated to learn the basic workings—like when you start your business. Decisions are made that fit the way you work best.

Naming your farm is no different than naming a business. It’s a piece of your identity that represents your attributes and values to the market. It’s important enough to give careful consideration to choosing the right name.

“Location, location, location” is important for business success. It is being at the right spot where business flourishes. For Hay Day, the location of your fields, chicken coop, bakery, barn, and silos influences performance.

Speaking of fields…successful farmers plant strategically. This ensures the correct quantity of crops is available to make the feed needed for the chickens to lay eggs. After all, without feed, the chickens go belly up—literally. No one wants to see that. Doesn’t this sound just amazingly similar to strategic planning and resource allocation? Trust me, just like in Hay Day, it doesn’t happen on its own.

Then there is the grumpy old man, the happily annoying little girl shopping for her “grandma,” and the Mary Poppins look-alike who randomly stop by the farm requesting to make a purchase. Like your business, you serve a variety of clientele. Can you tell which one best matches the buyer persona you’ve selected to serve through your products and services?

Of course, good strategic planning creates growth. And, as your business grows so does the need for capacity. Purchases needed for expansion require pre-planning and a budget. So it is with Hay Day. Hopefully, you’ve saved for equipment to remove stumps, cut down trees, and pulverize boulders. If not, things stagnate…like business.

There’s no resting on your laurels—on your Hay Day “farm” or in business. The land is continually surveyed for new opportunities.

On the “farm”—as in business—it’s all out growing, selling, delivering, and resource allocation. That is, until a problem develops. (For me, I’m still missing a bolt to expand my silo capacity.) Where do you turn for help?

As far as I know, there aren’t any instructions. You’re on your own to figure out how to run and grow a farm that is successful and thriving until your farm becomes large enough to access assistance.

Sadly, access to help for the small farmer is eerily familiar for the small business entrepreneur. (This is why we’ve geared our services for the small business entrepreneur.)

Overall, Hay Day is truly a game of honing strategic business skills. From strategic thinking to planning to budgeting to resource allocation—each move you make on the “farm,” as in business, determines the degree of success or struggle you’ll experience.

So, if you decide to jump in to hone your skills, be sure to look me up. You’ll find me at “YaYa’s” on Hay Day or reach out to me here.

It seems like a lifetime since I launched my coaching practice in 1997. In fact, there were only 5000 coaches of all disciplines (business, life, time management, career, etc.) internationally. Today, that number has soared to include those educated by reputable institutions to those who merely hang out a shingle and call themselves a coach. In fact, a recent report by IBISWorld shows that 46,700 firms provide coaching for business in the U.S. alone. It’s growing!

Coaching, for all disciples, is primarily about discovering…discovering what’s missing—missing in your thinking, your vision, your direction, and your plans. The coach asks probing questions that allow a coachee to search within the database of their experiences to uncover the missing piece.

Coaching is also about discovering what is present yet unseen. That includes talents, skills, values, beliefs, and attitudes that are getting in the way of success.

That’s all well and good—in theory—but in the real world of small business, it’s not very practical. This is especially true for small business owners who are masters of their crafts, such as attorneys, thought leaders, writers, accountants, and therapists who have transitioned to entrepreneurship. Without the context (i.e., experience) from which to draw, many business owners are frustrated with their coaching experience. They want—and need—more. And, I might add, they deserve more.

The Coaching Wants of Today’s Small Business

Although today there is an element of probing questions that will always arise within the context of any productive business coaching call, small business owners truly desire much, much more.

  1. Small business wants a business coach who partners with them.
    Regardless of the number of employees within a business, the owner walks the trail alone. Isolated from what feels like the rest of humanity, it is a solitary journey. Growing a business in a silo is bad for business.Having a business coach that walks next to them accelerates learning, reduces isolation, stimulates creativity and innovation, and removes the fog that accompanies the loneliness of business ownership.
  2. Small business wants a coach with strategic business skills.
    Few people have been taught, or know how, to think strategically within a business. Yet, strategic thinking is the prevailing skill that shapes the future of a business. It makes the difference between success and failure—achieving and doing—moving forward or falling further behind.A coach with a strategic skill set is priceless for small business owners.

    It’s the strategic piece of coaching that fosters the alignment of goals and plans with mission, vision, and strategies. Rather than cluttering the business environment with seemingly unrelated activities in hopes of growing the business, a strategic approach prompts a business owner to think in terms of what really matters.

    Coaching that is strategic promotes lean thinking, saves a business owner countless hours of unproductive activity, and fosters greater work-life balance.

  3. Small business wants a business coach with an understanding of business.
    Especially in today’s complex business environment, a small business owner can no longer engage a coaching professional without a deeper knowledge and understanding of strategy, marketing, process, performance, metrics, and growing pains associated with the various stages of business.An experienced and well-informed business professional, armed with a tool box of entrepreneurial competencies, is a powerful combination that allows business owners to cut through the flood of information and make quick, smart, strategic decisions that catapult their business forward.
  4. Small business wants a customized coaching style.
    Cookie cutters are the perfect solution—for a baker. A business owner in today’s market, however, wants a coaching approach tailor-made for their personal, professional, and business needs and wants.There is no denying that small business is becoming more complex. As each industry responds to the rapidly changing needs of small business with greater innovation and ingenuity, business coaching must also branch out and grow to meet those needs.

Are we up for the challenge? You bet!

With the end of a year often comes an evaluation of successes and failures, as well as goal setting and predictions for the following year. For a small business owner, this time of introspection can significantly boost motivation. It’s a way to refocus, to remember all the reasons you do what you do.

We recently spoke with some intelligent, innovative small business owners and asked them two specific questions to see what the end of the year means for them. We think you’ll find what they had to say interesting, relatable, and most importantly, helpful.

As a Small Business Owner, What is the One Biggest Lesson You Learned in 2015?

No matter your age or experience level, there’s always something new to be learned. This is especially true in today’s constantly evolving, fast-paced society. With changes in technology and consumer behavior, it benefits every small business owner to remain adaptable.

There is value in learning from ourselves as well as from others. From ourselves, we evaluate our own failures and correct our actions accordingly. From others, we observe mistakes and learn what to avoid in our own businesses.

It’s been asked, “Do you have one year of experience repeated 10 times or do you have 10 years of experience?” If we never learn from past experiences, we repeatedly make the same poor choices.

These five entrepreneurs certainly don’t plan on repeating 2015’s mistakes. Here’s what they learned.

  • Honesty really is the best policy. Hilary Beck of InPlay Showroom told us, “Eventually the truth always seems to come out and only hurts the business…”
  • Immediate gratification runs rampant. We agree with Scott Donnelly of PDM, LLP, in that people are becoming increasingly impatient. In 2015, he learned that “technology has created an environment of immediate gratification and it is spilling over into business.”
  • Support is invaluable. New consultant Linda Tieman learned first-hand the importance of a helping hand. She was surprised at “how much people are willing to help me get started with my consulting business.”
  • Being prepared ensures success. Ginny Kenyon of Kenyon HomeCare Consulting learned last year to “not start two major initiatives in the same year unless you have sufficient staff and money to do them.”
  • Business growth increases with focus. Among other things, entrepreneur Erik Kieser found that a “clean, clear brand focus” is vital to success.

Based on the learnings mentioned by the above professionals, can you determine the lessons learned last year in your own business?

What are Your Small Business Predictions for 2016?

Once you understand the lessons learned in 2015, you’re more equipped to make some predictions for what lies ahead. Setting goals is an important part of making these predictions, as your goals should always align with the direction in which your business is headed.

If you’re not sure what the future holds for you as a small business owner—or for small business in general—take into consideration these predictions made by our entrepreneurial friends. It’s always encouraging to get a peek inside the minds of those who’ve stood where you stand.

As the saying goes, “Who better than those in the trenches to provide insight into what is on the horizon?” Here are the predictions our friends gave for 2016.

  • Small businesses will need to be proactive and efficient, working smart in order to stay ahead of the competition. (Hilary)
  • Small business will grow as consumers trend toward a sense of community and focus on local businesses. (Scott)
  • There will be more competition as Baby Boomers reach retirement age and start their own businesses. (Linda)
  • Businesses with passive streams of income will need ongoing focus and support. (Ginny)
  • Growth will be seen in client base and income. (Erik)

We hope you’ve found this information helpful and inspiring. 2016 promises to be an exciting year, one full of prosperity. Success is yours for the taking, if you’ll only reach out your hands. What do you predict for your business in the new year?


Want some help looking into the crystal ball to see what 2016 holds for you? You’re free strategic coaching conversation about your business goals is only a click away.

When Neil Armstrong walked on the moon and declared, “This is one small step for a man, one giant leap for mankind,” it was transformative. It was success as defined by that particular mission. It was anything but “one” or “small.”

Like success in business, it was a mission composed of a million small steps and victories.

What’s the Hurry?

Like the White Rabbit in Alice in Wonderland: [singing] I’m late. I’m late. For a very important date. No time to say “Hello, Goodbye”. I’m late, I’m late, I’m late.

So, too, entrepreneurs are in a rush. In a society in which we stand in front of the microwave and yell, “HURRY UP!” anything we want to know, do, or have is a mere click away.

Even Superman leaps over tall buildings in one single bound.

Want success? No worries…click here.

Except—that’s not reality for most entrepreneurs, and it’s hurting your success.

The Facebook Effect

Facebook is one of the fastest growing companies in history. It grew from an unpretentious dorm room to over 1.18 billion users in August of 2015 in a mere decade. It continues to alter the communication landscape as it persists in dominating the Internet.

Regardless of what you think about Facebook (I think Facebook is a slacker), the rapid growth of Facebook has literally changed many aspects of life, including marketing, politics…and business.

Many of the changes triggered by the Facebook Effect can be construed as positive. There are, however, other aspects that may be damaging to your business without your knowing.

Just Add Water

As a business coach who has worked with entrepreneurs since the mid 90’s, I’ve noticed a dramatic shift in expectations that has accompanied the dawning of such fast-growing, mega businesses like Facebook, Google, and Amazon.

In the mind of the “average” entrepreneur, if success came fast and big for other companies then, somehow, the same hyper-growth and attainment awaits them. Except it doesn’t.

Too many entrepreneurs expect instant success. Unrealistic expectations of what is possible—and what it takes to grow a successful business—cause lane changes that ripple through the business preventing a business from gaining any sort of traction.

What happens when instant success eludes you? It’s quickly followed by unnecessary anxiety and the “what’s wrong with me” syndrome. Even the most gifted entrepreneur experiences an erosion of confidence. It’s not a pretty picture.

Master the Mundane

Jeff Olson said it best in his book, “The Slight Edge. Turning Simple Disciplines into Massive Success & Happiness,” when he said the real key to success is mastering the simple daily disciplines…the simple productive action, repeated consistently over time.

Jeff went on to say that the difference between achieving—or not achieving—our goals lies in our ability to master the mundane—conquering those things that are as easy NOT to do as they are to do.

Activities such as strategic thinking, blogging, planning—require discipline. Whereas poking around on Facebook, responding to unimportant emails, and distracting ourselves from real business work is easy.

Your success in business, much like our moon program, is composed of a million small steps and victories. How willing are you to master the mundane in exchange for your “overnight” success?

My Fitbit buzzed the start of my day. When my feet hit the floor I didn’t see the usual rays of sun filtering over the hillside. It was gloomy and gray. A dense marine layer shrouded the area.

We’ve been known to have early morning fog along the ocean, but this was different. The neighbor’s house—a mere 40 feet away—was invisible. The heavy, wet fog saturated the ground. In the distance, the low moaning of foghorns bellowed.

The dense marine layer reminded me of the experience many business owners face—when the ability to see clearly is murky. Each step is taken cautiously, if at all, because business is blurred. Confidence fades and stress fills the void.

Undoubtedly, each of us has days when we’re a bit muddled. You get up in the morning with priorities and direction a bit jumbled. But, by noon, the fog burns off to reveal the crisp countryside. This type of mist is so light that you move quickly and easily forward. There’s no need for foghorns. You think, see, and act with clarity, calmness, and confidence.

The type of fog I’m referring to is different.

It’s dense and long lasting. Try as you may, you’re unable to find a clear path to your destination. The stress builds. You sound the alarm. Your foghorn signals that you’re out there in the impenetrable fog—by yourself—and need guidance.

This is when business coaching becomes vital.

Business Coaching: The Fog Lifter

How does business coaching provide clearness to what feels nebulous? It happens in a variety of ways.

  1. Design fresh new ideas or approaches.
    In as early as 1546, John Heywood knew the power of coaching when he coined the proverb, “two heads are better than one.” More effective solutions that produce better outcomes are created when we avail ourselves of collaboration.
  2. Find clarity.
    We know what we do, what we want to achieve, and where we want to go—intuitively. Yet, we lack the right words to describe those elements with precision. A good listening ear and a coach’s extended vocabulary, equips us with the language needed to fully express our desires.
  3. Diagnose obstacles.
    “We have met the enemy…and it is us.” In many situations, we are the masters of our own demise—without realizing it. We need a fearless coach who can caringly point out barriers in our path, especially those to which we are blind.
  4. Pinpoint strengths and skills.
    When we’re in the middle of the murky waters, its difficult to see our assets. Rather than placing attention on what’s wrong, a coach focuses on strengths, abilities, and capabilities. And, helps create a plan to develop business skills needed.
  5. Bring opportunities to light.
    When encased in confusion, it’s difficult—if not impossible—to recognize the good fortune that is within our reach. “Colluding” with a coach opens us up to unanticipated opportunities.
  6. Extend support.
    Knowing, with unequivocal certainty, the best resources to tap into is challenging when business is a bit cloudy. A qualified business coach avails themselves of vital resources, like strategic service providers, to save us countless hours and unnecessary stress.
  7. Render analysis.
    Someone needs to keep their head about them—and, this is your coach. When knee-deep in perplexity, a coach provides objectivity, investigative scrutiny, and reasoning that allow us to unravel what’s before us.
  8. Furnish encouragement.
    Floating aimlessly in the fog—alone—is challenging, at best. It’s reassuring when someone, who believes in you and your goals, comes alongside while you maneuver through the maze.

Add these together and enthusiasm and optimism is restored. The fog lifts. The horizon is within view. And, the path is clear.

There’s no better way to travel…


Have you worked with a business coach? If so, tell us how your coach helped you achieve the clarity you needed? Inquiring minds want to know…

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Brooke Billingsley

Vice President
Perception Strategies

Synnovatia is a strategic coaching firm that is detailed and knowledgeable about business. i have a small business that grew from $150K to $750K because of the goal setting and resources that Synnovatia provided. It saves me years of learning on my own.

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